Thank You gifts: 10 ways to show your appreciation

21 May

Thank you gifts — simple, straightforward, with the deft touch of surprise; that’s what I like about them. I liken a thank you gift to an unassuming, down-to-earth girl with mystery in her eyes and magic in her smile. Plain? Anything but.

Most people, who’ve done something for you or helped you out in any way,  would be satisfied with a verbal thanks. But, when you go beyond the ordinary, when you go beyond the mundane way of doing things, that’s when the good stuff happens. 

And the best part of a thank you gift? No limits, no rules and, the money you spend (or don’t) is irrelevant. What matters is that through your thank you gift, you’re conveying how much you value the support, just how thankful you are.

Here are 10 different ways to say ‘thank you’ to someone.

Thank you gift #1: ‘We’re nuts about you’ jar

Thanks you gifts for friends and family

Have a friend or family member you adore and is always there for you? Give them a  jar filled with nuts, labelled ’We’re nuts about you’ as gesture of appreciation for everything they’ve done.

Thank you gift #2: Crispy book treats for teachers

Thank You gifts for teachers - Rice Krispies Treat Book Pops with Rootbeer flavored modeling chocolate

Isn’t this a cute way to thank your favourite teacher? Get the instructions for this creative, edible gift at Hungry Happenings.

Thank you gift #3: Thank you berry much

Thank you gifts - thank you berry much jam jar

Make your own jam, fill them out in cute little jars and add fun labels like ‘You are berry sweet‘, ‘Thank you berry much‘. Go to Simply Kiertse for the recipe and the free printable labels.

Thank you gift #4: Thanks for getting me out of a pickle

Thank you gifts - thanks for getting me out of a pickle

Been in trouble recently and glad for the help you got from a friend or co-worker? Get a jar of delicious pickle and add a label that says, “Thanks for getting me out of a pickle”.

Thank you gift #5: ‘Thanks a latte’ coffee gift

Thank you gifts - Thanks A LatteTag

Just attach this tag to a jar of coffee or a a bottle of cold coffee to say ‘thanks a lot’. You can find the free printable at Jasey’s Crazy Daisy

Thank you gift #6: Say ‘thank you’ in different languages

Thank you gifts - saying thanks in different languages

Create a word map of the word ‘thank you’ in different languages.

Thank you gift #7: Cheerful, bunting thank you card

Thank you gifts - colourful, bunting thank you card

It doesn’t get any simpler than this.  Print the card, add a special, handwritten message and you’re set. Get the free printable  for this thank you gift card from 74 Lime Lane

Thank you gift #8: ‘Thanks a bunch’ card

Thank you gifts - thanks a bunch gift card

Get the free printable  for this thank you gift card and envelope from Organizing homelife

Thank you gift #9: Hand written thank you note

Instead of cards, you can also write you own thank you note. Here are a couple of quotes you can use.

I can no other answer make, but, thanks, and thanks.” - William Shakespeare

Thank you so much for all you do; You’re truly a delight; When my life overwhelms and does me in, You make everything all right. – Karl and Joanna Fuchs

Thank you gift #10: Thank you gift bag

And just in case you’re looking for an awesome thank you gift bag, you’ll love this toothpick flower one I found here.

Thank you gifts - beautiful gift bag

 

Shauna Niequist summed it up best when she said, “When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate. And when life is bitter, say thank you and grow.”

 

Why I’ve never given my mother a gift on Mother’s Day

11 May

Why I've never given my mother a gift for Mother's Day

I am a passionate gifter. I dive head first into anything that involves celebrating milestones. I spend time, effort and thought doing what a lot of people consider a chore – getting gifts. My blog goes by the tagline — the gift of love and life and gifts for all the happy occasions the duo entail. And yet, I’ve never given my mother a gift on Mother’s Day…not even a card.

Growing up in Mumbai in the eighties and nineties, I wasn’t even aware that such days existed. I was 12 when I first heard of Valentine’s Day (yes, we managed to escape the commercialisation for a long time). It’s only in recent years that concepts such as Mother’s Day have sneaked in on the tails of their successful leader, Valentine’s Day. Even so, the trend is restricted mainly to cities and large towns.

But, the more fundamental reason for not celebrating Mother’s Day, though I’ve been aware of its existence for a few years now, is because I’m not entirely at ease with the concept ( Strangely, I don’t have such a strong sense of discomfort with Valentine’s Day). Because for me, the math just doesn’t add up.

Being a mother, it’s not just for a day, is it? It’s an entire lifetime from the moment your child is conceived inside you. It’s an eternity of loving and nurturing your children, worrying about them, praying for them and, trying your darndest best to mould them into your version of what the ideal is. An aeon that is faithfully shadowed by self-doubt about your parenting skills and wondering, why you were a better mother before you had kids. You just can’t fold a celebration of that lifetime or salute all that work to fit in neatly in a boxed up, gift wrapped day. It has to appreciated, cherished and acknowledged a lot more often.

Like my mother and several others I know, I don’t expect a gift on Mother’s Day. Our rewards are random, our gifts come in unrecognisable avatars and our work is acknowledged in peculiar ways. It happens when, out of the blue, our child utters something incredibly intelligent or perceptive and we think, “Hey, I’m doing a good job, after all” or, when our tiny tot, who has embraced the ‘terrible 3s’ phase with alarming alacrity, realises that the tantrum has gone too far and offers up conciliatory wet kisses and an apologetic, “BUT, I love you”. It hits us with an unexpected thud when our rebellious teenager, in the throes of adolescence, decides to end the conversational cold war with a casual funny remark aimed to say, “Maybe you’re right and you have my best interests at heart”. It props up in the form of our partner in (parenting) crime who pitches in with gusto without assuming that raising a child is the sole obligation of the mother.

Unless our lives are peppered with these and several other such affirmations that make the hard spots in mothering worthwhile; unless we stop believing our mothers should be ‘selfless paragons of virtue, who paradoxically don’t need to have a say in their own homes’; unless we recognise them as individuals with their own quirks and qualities, anything we give or receive on Mother’s Day would be an empty gesture.   

7 fabulous gifts for book lovers

4 May

Looking for gifts for book lovers? Here are 7 fabulous gifts for the book lovers in your life.

7 fabulous gifts for book lovers

“I used to be in the company of books.  Now, in my spare time, I tweet. Gotta get back to my old flame. “

That (ironically) is one of my recent tweets.  It pretty much sums up the state of affairs in my life. Thanks to my smart phone, it’s become oh-so-easy to spend all my spare time on Twitter. Sure, I read a lot through tweets – news, blogs, movie reviews, articles and columns. But I don’t read the one thing that I love reading — books. I don’t get transported to another world and, the magic is missing.

And, the only books I’ve read recently happen to be children’s books for my three-year old. So, I’ve been making a list. A list of all the books I want to read and will buy soon.  This is my early birthday gift to myself — books that will bring back a little magic, a little wonder, back into my life.

7 fabulous gifts for book lovers

Meanwhile, if the book lovers in your life already have every book they want or you’re not entirely sure what kind of book to gift, there are always other literary gifts. Here are 7 fabulous gifts for book lovers.

Book lover gift # 1: Fairy tale book ends

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Book lover gift # 2:Literary themed T-shirts

Literary themed t -shirt is a great gift for book lovers

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Book lover gift # 3: Oscar Wilde pocket mirror

Oscar Wilde pocket mirror gift for book lovers

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Book lover gift # 4: The Storymatic

The Storymatic is the perfect gift for book lovers

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Book lover gift # 5:Literary art phone cases

Literary art phone cases gift for book lovers

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Book lover gift # 6:A book bag

Book bag gift for book lovers

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Book lover gift # 7: Animal book marks

Animal bookmarks are a fabulous gift for book lovers

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So, the next time you want to get a gift for a book lover who seems to have read everything, try one of the 7 fabulous gifts above.

Saying it with words: 10 house warming gifts

25 Apr

Have you ever received house warming gifts that said something? I don’t mean figuratively.

I’m drawn to two things when I visit a person’s home — photographs and words. I love to gaze at photographs of the family — they allow me a peek into that person’s life and sometimes even their journey so far.

The words — in the form of quotes or phrases — do something better, they give me an insight into the nature of the person — what do they like? what are their beliefs and values? what makes them tick? They’re more than just a part of the décor; they’re there to inspire and remind  the people living in that home of the things that matter to them; sometimes they’re there just to make you smile.

That’s why I like posters and boards that with phrases and quotes. They are perfect house-warming gifts. The good part is I can tailor them to match the nature and personality of the people I’m giving them to. You can even paint one of your own. Here’s one I made for my home.

Here are some of my favourites from Pinterest.

House warming gift #1: I would give this to a writer

Housewarming gifts

House warming gift #2: For chai lovers

Tealover board

House warming gift #3: My favourite; it’s for introverts like me

For the introvert

House warming gift #4: For aspiring comedians or, just about anyone who likes to tell jokes à la Chandler in the sitcom Friends.

For comedians

House warming gift #5: For the fashionista

For fashionistas

House warming gift #6:For Pinterest fans. They’ll pin it too!

For Pinterest fanatics

House warming gift #7:For those who love to sew

For the sewers

House warming gift #8: For baking experts

For those who love to bake

House warming gift #9: For those blessed with a green thumb

For those with a green thumb

House warming gift #10: For photographers

Photography lover board

 

I say a little prayer for you

19 Apr

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This is not the kind of post you normally read on I Love Gifting. But then, today is no normal day and this is no normal world we are living in.

This morning, the first piece of news I read was about a five-year old girl raped by her neighbour in Delhi, India’s capital city. As I write this, she’s fighting for life in a hospital because not only was she raped; a glass bottle and pieces of a candle were inserted into her private parts. The police initially refused to lodge a FIR, telling the family to be happy that the child was alive. 

Reading about it felt like being punched in the gut…repeatedly. Her innocence lost forever, is there any chance that she will celebrate the gift of life, the gift of being a woman? That is if she survives, if she gets the chance to grow up at all.

As I say a little prayer for this little girl — as many others are doing, perhaps the people in power (read the police, the judiciary) will be benevolent enough to give her the gift of justice. Because it is becoming increasingly apparent that in India and several other places, justice is not a given, it is a whim, a fancy — where these stories repeat themselves in an infinite loop, the horror never-ending.

I say a little prayer for you little one. 

Picks from Prague

13 Apr

Every time I travel to a new country, I pick up what I call ‘a piece of a place’. These could be little souvenirs and gifts for family and friends or a take-away memory of that place for my home.

 I was in the Czech Republic recently and sure enough I came across some lovely gifts and souvenirs. These are my local finds — my picks from Prague.

Prague shopping guide 

Picks from Prague: gift a piece of a place

Take away memory

I picked up this lovely painting of the beautiful Charles Bridge for my home. While several shops had the same kind, this one stood out due to the black &white contrast and the subtle use of colour by the artist. It’s going to be a wonderful reminder of our stay in Prague.

Take away memories can be fun gifts. From souvenirs to local specialities and crafts, the possibilities of take away memory gifts are endless. Just add in your personal touch and you can gift someone a piece of a place.

Gift picks from Prague

 

Czech home spa

I discovered this chain of stores called Manufaktura in Prague. They have an eclectic mix of Czech folk craft, traditional wooden toys and a range of cosmetics inspired by the science of baths and  natural Czech ingredients! I picked up this rose herbal soap. 

Gift picks from Prague

Enamel tin kitchen ware

I found  this adorable enamel tin cup with a cute dog design — perfect for my 3-year old daughter. You can find enamel tin kitchen ware in vibrant colours and animal designs in several shops in the old town area.

Gift picks from Prague

 

Beer face cream and shampoo

Czech beer is regarded as one of the best in the world. But who would’ve thought they’d put it good use in cosmetics. Apparently beer is not just a good conditioner, it’s also good for the skin.  Knowing that, how could I resist this beer cream? If it’s good for the skin,  can hair be far behind? So I added the beer shampoo to my basket too. 

Gift picks from Prague

 

Gift picks from Prague

Picks from Prague: Shopping tips

Here are a couple of tips for first-time visitors to Prague.

  • Bargain and then bargain some more. Also, make doubly sure to confirm the exact price of the item you’re purchasing.  Some of the stuff in the souvenir shops in the old town area is over priced and, any sign of confusion or ignorance on your part means you’re likely to be cheated. 
  • Visit several shops, compare prices and quality before you make your final purchase.

So that were my gift picks from Prague. Do you have any favourites?

Going timeless: 5 gift ideas that won’t go out of style

8 Apr

I was over at Glad2bawoman* last week with my 10 gifts for the constant traveller. Today, it’s their turn to visit me with a guest post on 5 timeless gift ideas for women.

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Contrary to popular belief (widely held by men mostly), women are not hard to please. If you’re getting a gift for a woman, all you need to do is give some thought to her likes and dislikes. There is a vast array of gift options for women to suit all budgets and occasions – can’t say the same for men!

If however, you don’t know the likes and dislikes of the lady in question or are short on time, there are some classic gift ideas to fall back on.

5 timeless fashion accessories that make for good gifts for women

1. Pearls: Get jewellery – not just any jewellery, make it pearls. Think Audrey Hepburn in Breakfast at Tiffany’s and you’ll know what we are talking about. Pearls are elegant and timeless. A simple strand is enough to earn you brownie points. A strand of pearls around the wrist, or one around the neck, pretty pearl danglers for the ears or even a pearl brooch – there are several designs and options to choose from.

5 timeless gift ideas for women

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2. A little black clutch: This is an indispensable piece of fashion accessory for women. Even if she already owns a few, one more is always welcome. A black clutch goes with every single outfit and can be embellished with brooches and pins for a festive look. Choose a simple design;  many come with embellishments and bows, others have elegant thread work and yet others might have a contrasting band. To play safe, go for an all-black in velvet or suede, with a linked, chain shoulder strap. 

5 timeless gift ideas for women

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3. Perfume: It’s difficult to go wrong with this one.  Women love to smell good and what’s more, there are different perfumes for different times of the day — floral for the day time, musky for the night, citrusy for summers and so on. So test a few and choose one that you think has the best fragrance. If you’re unsure, go for the classic brands – Elizabeth Arden, Chanel No. 5, Dior and Nina Ricci. They are on the expensive side, but if the lady in question is special, it’s money well spent.

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4. Scarves: Gift a scarf in a pretty pastel or floral design – Hermes or H&M are favourites with fashionistas.  Make sure the scarf is made of silk for that pretty, floaty look when tied around the neck. Branded scarves are a tad expensive, so you can always look for local offerings. Several online shopping sites offer scarves that look effortlessly chic and at great prices!

a classic black clutch

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5. Watches: Nothing says timeless more than a beautiful watch. Choose from classic designs – with pretty interlinked chain bracelets, delicate watch faces with silver numbers engraved into them, some watches look like a piece of jewellery.

You can get them in silver or gold, sometimes with rhinestones or precious gems embedded in them. If your wallet permits, choose from high fashion brands like Cartier, Omega and Guess. Or go one step further and source a vintage watch. Vintage watches have a timeless appeal that’s hard to beat.

5 timeless gift ideas for women

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So there you have it, 5 timeless gift ideas for women.

*Glad2bawoman is an online media company for women with over 75,000 community members. Visit  www.glad2bawoman.com to read articles on leisure, empowerment, relationships, health and fashion. 

Jumbo love: 10 elephant-themed gift ideas

5 Apr

I love elephants — real and otherwise. If you’ve read my earlier post – feed that fetish – you know what I’m talking about. My dream is to visit an elephant sanctuary with my family and touch an elephant cub up close!

For now, I’m happy drooling over these adorable elephants. 

10 elephant gift ideas

Here’s my collection of 10 elephant-themed gift ideas:

1. Carved elephant pendant (via)

Elephant gift ideas

2. Trunks full of taste: white elephant salt & pepper shaker (via)

Elephant-themed gifts

3. Elephant cub painting (via)

Elephant gifts

4. Elephant watering can (via)

Elephant gift ideas

5. Elephant poster (via)

10 elephant-themed gift ideas

6. Wooden elephant with inlay work (via)

10 elephant-themed gift ideas

7. Blue elephant clutch (via)

Elephant gift ideas

8. Crystal elephant (via)

 Wooden elephant with inlay work

9. Red elephant cushion (via)

elephant gifts

1o. Elephant tea pot (via)

10 elephant-themed gift ideas

What’s your favourite animal? Does your animal love get displayed in all shapes and forms?

10 gifts for constant travellers

2 Apr

I’ve had a fair bit of travel this past year and that got me thinking about travel gifts. Here’s a list of 10 gifts for the constant traveller I put together and shared on Glad2bawoman recently.  

Crumple City Maps are a perfect gift for city travellers.

Gifts for the constant traveller

Travelling is not just about having fun in faraway, exotic places. Mention the word ‘travel’ and it conjures up the customary images of beautiful, exotic places. It’s accompanied by a flood of adjectives, from the pedestrian — exciting, fun and relaxing, to the not-so-banal — atmospheric, enchanting, and life-changing.

I’ve always wondered why people seldom think about practicalities like packing, weather appropriate clothes or forgetting to turn off the lights before leaving home. But since travelling isn’t just about having fun in exotic places, here is my list of 10 travel-unique gifts to make the constant traveller’s life a little less stressful, a bit more enjoyable.

10 travel-unique gifts

1.Backpack: Let’s start with the basics. Know any newbie traveller with a ‘travel to 130 countries’ bucket list? Get that person started by gifting a backpack. Its multiple compartments, cushioned straps, hassle-free movement on cobbled streets or stairs makes this a useful accessory for those eager to become backpackers.

Gift a backpack, help someone become a backpacker.

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2.Packing Cubes: So every traveller you know already has a backpack or a suitcase? Get them the next best thing. Packing cubes make a good gift for organised travellers who like to have everything neat and sorted into separate groups like clean clothes, chargers and cables, toiletries and dirty laundry.

packing cubes make packing easy and fun for travellers

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3.Funny luggage tags: Now that we’ve taken care of the luggage, it’s time for luggage tags. 9 out of 10 suitcases tend to be black, making your own nearly indistinguishable. Not much fun when you have to squint and take a close look at every black bag on the baggage carousel. Gift some fun, colourful luggage tags with quirky phrases and you’ll have made a constant traveller’s life easier.

fun luggage tags make it easy to spot your luggage

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4.The STORM Kettle: This contraption is perfect for those who like to camp outdoors while travelling. Also, just the thing you need if you’re miles away from civilisation and need your morning cup of tea or coffee to feel human. Use it with anything you have on hand — a sheet of newspaper, small twigs, cones or dry grass.

This kettle is a great gift for coffee loving travellers

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5.Crumple City Maps: For city travellers, get a map that’s meant to be crumpled and stuffed into bags or pockets! No worries about creasing or tearing made as they are from tough, water-resistant material. The Crumple City Map has information on streets, monuments, museums, art galleries and 10 soul sights.

Maps that can be stuffed into pockets

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6.Where to go when: This book is tailor-made for highly organised travellers who like to plan their travel well ahead. Where to go when has purely practical information about which place to visit at what time of the year. 30 places are listed for each month complete with activities to do, places to stay and local dos & don’ts.

Gift this book to the constant traveller

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7.The art of travel: Also a book, The Art of Travel by Alain De Botton is about the philosophy of travel. It explores the where, why and how of travelling and what makes the mundane appear exotic when in another country. A perfect way to spend time during airport layovers and long journeys.

Good gift for book loving travellers

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8.Carry-On Kit: Ask any business traveller what the most annoying thing about the one-day business trip is and pat comes the reply, “liquids in carry-on baggage”. Get a carry-on kit that meets airline rules with bottles and jars in different sizes for creams, lotions, sprays, perfumes and contact lenses.

a practical but useful gift for travellers

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9.Children’s backpack: Getting back to luggage, know a family travelling with kids? A common sight is children wanting to carry luggage that’s double their size even as the frantic parents try to make a mad dash to their plane or train. Here’s where the children’s backpack comes into play. Gift them a cute backpack they can carry and you’ve just made a child a happier traveller.

Gift a panda backpack to children

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10.Scratch map: This gift is meant for ‘been there, done that’ travellers. You can’t go wrong with a scratch map of the world. They can scratch off all the places they’ve visited which then gets displayed in different colours for each country. It makes for an interesting piece of home decor while giving the owners bragging rights to their travel stories.

scratch maps are fun gifts for the 'been there, done that' traveller

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What do you think? Do you have any favourites that are travel must haves?

Rachels’ beautiful gift

23 Mar

I was wrong when I said a donation to charity is technically not a gift. Rachel Beckwith taught me that.

Rachel’s’ gift to 60,000 people

Rachel  was 9. She had a wish.

She wanted to raise $ 300 for charity so 15 people could get clean drinking water.

And then she died in a car accident. Her wish did not.

People heard about her wish, raising over $ 1.2 million in her honour.

60,000 people in Ethiopia now have clean water.

One of her benefactors said, “To give up your birthday presents so that other children can improve their lives, is the most beautiful gift a person can give.”  

This was Rachel’s beautiful gift.

Visit Rachel’s mother, Samantha’s current fundraising campaign, in her honour.

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